July 24, 2011

Court Rules Parental Rights Cannot Be Terminated by Contract

The New Jersey Supreme Court ruled recently that parental rights cannot be terminated merely by a contract entered into by the parties involved, rather parental rights can be terminated only by State law under specific conditions. (1)

This question arose in connection with a case of a single woman who wanted a child and her male friend who agreed to be a sperm donor. Prior to conception, the two entered into a contract whereby the male donor gave up all of his parental rights and responsibilities; the woman assumed complete responsibility for the child. (1)

The birth certificate of the child born from this procedure listed no one as the father. Following the child’s birth, the two individuals involved in the conception signed another consent order confirming that the male surrendered his parental rights and the female retained all responsibility for the child. That order was sent to the court. (2)

The court held that termination of parental rights is controlled by statute, not by personal contracts entered into by individuals. Under New Jersey law, parental rights can be terminated only under certain circumstances, including when a parent is found to be unfit; a child has been removed from a parent’s custody by the Division of Youth and Family Services (DYFS); or in the case of an adoption. New Jersey law does not provide for the contractual termination of parental rights. (2)

The statute was adopted in an effort to avoid complicating matters between husband, wife and child when that child was conceived by artificial insemination involving an anonymous donor. Normally parental rights are established by the genetic connection between the biological father and child. However, according to the statute, the donor “of semen provided to a licensed physician for use in artificial insemination” is not considered to be the child’s father. As a result, the donor has no rights or responsibilities relating to the child. (3)

In the case in question, no physician was involved in the process. As a result, the court found that the statute does not apply here and the donor’s parental rights cannot be terminated by contract either. However, the court did recognize the difference between the existence of parental rights and the exercise of them. Since the donor in this case had chosen not to exercise his parental rights, the court said it would not impose them. (2)

(1) http://www.law.com/jsp/nj/PubArticleNJ.jsp?id=1202497445086&slreturn=1&hbxlogin=1
(2) http://www.law.com/jsp/nj/PubArticleNJ.jsp?id=1202497624325
(3) http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1246065/understanding_the_legal_aspects_of.html?cat=25


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July 8, 2011

‘Legally Separated’ Is Not a Status Recognized in New Jersey

While entertainment news headlines these days may be full of celebrities and politicians calling it quits on their marriages, divorce is a big step for most couples no matter what problems they may be facing. There can be any number of reasons why a couple in domestic turmoil may not want to jump into divorce – at least not just yet. Among those reasons are financial situations, religious beliefs, insurance matters and even the hope that a little time apart could help mend the relationship. While many states recognize “legal separation” as a state between marriage and divorce, New Jersey does not. (1)

In New Jersey there is a proceeding on the books known as “divorce from bed and board.” This antiquated term refers to a marital state which is between living as husband and wife and divorce. During this time, the couple would enter into a Separation – or Marital Settlement – Agreement, which does much the same as a divorce agreement without permanently ending the marriage. (1)

Under a Separation Agreement, a couple decides and agrees on a number of issues such as how assets are to be distributed between them; whether or not support payments need to be made and, if so, how much; tax issues, such as who claims who as dependents; and custody matters, including visitation schedules and child support. (1)

While New Jersey may not recognize ‘legal separations,’ it does have ‘no fault’ divorces, which are also referred to as voluntary separations. The separation must be one that the couple mutually agrees to and enters into voluntarily. A divorce on ‘no fault’ grounds requires that the couple not cohabitate or live in the same house for 18 months consecutively and that they agree there is no chance for reconciliation. (2)

A ‘divorce from bed and board’ or a voluntary separation can provide couples with a cooling-off period during which they can reevaluate the relationship free from the pressure which put the marriage in trouble to begin with. For those who see no chance of reunion, a no-fault divorce allows them to dissolve the marriage without putting blame on any one partner. When these separations do end in divorce, couples find that most of the emotionally-draining decisions have already been dealt with in the Separation Agreement. (3)

(1) http://goarticles.com/article/Marriage-Separation-in-New-Jersey-is-Divorce-from-Bed-and-Board/4820620/
(2) http://www.divorcelawinfo.com/NJ/njdivexpln.htm
(3) http://www.ehow.com/how_6365207_file-legal-separation-new-jersey.html

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