While co-parenting after divorce has its benefits, it also presents obstacles – not only for the parents but for the children, too. Let’s face it, if you and your ex agreed on everything, chances are you wouldn’t be divorced. So, it wouldn’t be unusual for divorced parents to have different…
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It’s the Conflict, Not the Divorce, That Can Do the Most Harm
Parents have an instinct to protect their children, especially when it comes to matters within their control. That’s why many couples who stay in marriages that are no longer working say they are doing so for the sake of the children. They fear divorce would cause them irreparable harm, but…
How to Break the News of Your Divorce to Your Kids Regardless of Age
Once the decision to divorce is made, the next important step for a couple is to break the news to their children. But how do you tell them that the family structure as they know it will no longer look the same, while reassuring them that they will continue to…
When Co-Parenting Doesn’t Work
It’s no secret that children do best when both parents are involved in their lives. This holds true for children of divorce, too, and it’s the reason many divorced parents choose to co-parent as part of their custody arrangement. Co-parenting allows parents to continue working together to raise their children…
Getting Through the Holidays Post-Divorce
Adjusting to life after divorce can be difficult, especially around holidays that put so much emphasis on family and traditions. As hard as it is for couples to make these adjustments, imagine how much harder it can be for children who are struggling to understand the changes their families are…
Children—The Unseen Victims of Domestic Violence
Society dictates that the ideal family is one where children are raised by two parents all living under the same roof. Yet, there are circumstances when staying together for the sake of the children is far from the best choice. Parents involved in a domestic violence relationship may think they…
Divorce 101: First Things First
There is a lot more involved to a divorce than two people simply going their own ways. Couples have an overwhelming number of decisions to make—how to divide their assets, where to live and, for parents, how to continue caring for their children, to name a few. As difficult as…
Understanding Child Support
When parents are seeking a divorce, some of the biggest issues they will need to resolve involve their children, specifically custody arrangements and child support. On the most basic level, child support is intended to cover the essential, daily needs of the children: food, clothing, and shelter. But support payments…
Co-Parenting Through A Pandemic
For many divorcing couples, co-parenting arrangements offer viable solutions to less-than-ideal situations by allowing each parent to maintain an active role in the parent/child relationship. These arrangements, however, are not without their challenges, and that was never more true than during the current pandemic. Thanks to COVID-19. such questions as…
From Married to Single – 5 Steps Toward A Smoother Transition
Transitioning from married life back to single life can be unsettling, especially when there are children involved. Nothing about your everyday life in the time leading up to your divorce is quite the same yet, for the sake of your children – and your own emotional health – it is…